Training over...for now!

As most of you know, we went to get Cody this past week. It was a bittersweet event that I know was hard for him. There was a lot of mixed feelings towards leaving San Antonio and coming back to Mississippi. But, let's get to the trip out first.
We left on Monday and drove to Sealy TX, which is about 2 - 3 hours away from San Antonio. We came to a Best Western right off I10 and decided to stay there. As soon as we checked into the hotel and drove around to a room, we thought,'hmm, there sure is a lot of bird dookie in this parking lot". Tommy said to park across the lot where there were fewer trees. No such luck. All the parking spaces that were tree free were taken. Guess they knew the secret that wasn't told at check in. There was a sign posted that the train could be heard from the rooms at night. But, being that we hear trains every night from our bedroom, this wasn't an issue. They just didn't reveal the 'little issue' of a bird invasion at dusk and again at dawn. We walked next door to eat and got back just before the sun started going down. All of a sudden, there was this chirping noise that got louder and louder. I asked Tommy, "what in the world?". He said that it sounded like birds outside the door. I pulled the curtains back and 'OMG!!' There were hundreds of big black birds EVERYWHERE! The trees were covered with them. It was an erie feeling. Felt like a scene out of the Birds movie where the birds were invading and attacking the humans. Once it was completely dark outside, the noise died down. Of course Tommy had to say that they pooped all night long...Oh great! Well, come first light, the noise started back up. No alarm clock needed here. We finally left after the noise stopped and cars were literally covered in white poop!!! First things first, we found a car wash, and were not the only ones in line. But, that car wash didn't get all the poop off. I had to get paper towels and 'wipe' the poop off of the spots that didn't come off. Gross!
We got to San Antonio before noon on Tuesday and I decided to valet park. Tommy, being the country boy that never gets out, really didn't like this idea! He went on and on about not liking leaving the car and the keys with a total stranger. He would not leave it alone. We went outside to take a walk around the neighborhood and there was my car still parked out front. He continued to fuss that we were paying for it to sit out front of the hotel for anyone to use! We were told that the nearest parking garage was a block away and Tommy decided that we may just move the car the next day and walk back and forth to get it when we wanted. We found out that Cody wasn't going to get to leave base that night so, we walked downtown to the mall. We went to the IMAX and watched the Alamo. When we got out, it was dark. We found that some streets were not really the ideal street to be out on after dark. As soon as we exited the back side of the mall, we were approached by a white female. She told us that she and her daughter were staying at the Salvation Army and needed $10 to pay for the night. She was trying to get out of there and just needed a little time. She was trying to get into school so they could get off the streets. She painted a sad picture and I was getting a little tender hearted until Tommy said "Where did you get that cigarette?". I knew what he was up to...she told him that she bummed it from a guy across the street and that's how she usually got them. She said that when she does have to buy them, they cost her $1.45. He said, 'Bull', you had me till you started blowing the smoke into my eyes. No, she got nothing. We left and got around a corner and was hit up again by a guy. Got to the Riverwalk and was hit up again. Tommy thought he had a sign tattooed across his forehead. The next morning, as soon as we walked out of the hotel, we were approached again!! This is when we decided to continue the valet parking. Who knows what we would be walking into trying to get in and out of the parking garage.
We ate at some great places and walked and walked and walked. We found our way onto the base Wednesday morning but didn't get to actually touch Cody. We found his barracks and saw his group getting smoked for something. I texted him asking if he was in the group jumping up and down and he responded after we had gotten off the base. We went out to get him again that night and as he was walking across the parking lot to us, my heart started pounding!! That was the best sight I had ever seen! Tommy said that he didn't recoqnize him coming across the lot. Mama did!! I couldn recognize my baby anywhere! Oh, I grabbed him and hugged (didn't cry though) and didn't want to let him go. It was the best feeling in the world! We took him out and fed him well and had to get him back pretty early but, at least I knew we would get him again the next night.
The next night, we got to meet this friend and companion for the past 4 months. She was a beautiful girl with long black hair that curled down her back. She was from New Jersey and moved to Florida at 17. She is of Latin decent and has the sweetest disposition. It was clear that she cared deeply for Cody and he for her. She told me that he really made it easier being there for so long. They knew that their end was near and it made me sad that they were going to have to say goodbye so soon. We took them back early so they could spend some time together before graduating. We took her to the airport on Friday and after she left, I saw the distressed look on Cody's face. It broke my heart seeing his heart break. That was the saddest thing I think I've every had to witness. That told me just how much he cared for her. Hopefully, we will get to see her again. Bridget, it you get to read this, 'Thank you for coming into out lives and making the time much more enjoyable for my son'.
We came home to a suprise party for Mama. She was sorta ticked off because I had told her that we weren't coming home til Monday. We were going to have some one on one time with Cody and that he wanted some alone time once he returned. She was truly suprised when he walked in at the river.
On Sunday, we had some of his friends out and grilled. Had boating and horseback riding for those that wanted to do either. We are so thrilled to have him home, but now it's time for him to get back to his life and is moving to Starkville today. As much as I would love for him to remain here with us, I want him to get back to his routine and make a place for himself. I am so proud of him and his friends for the decisions they have made to serve out country.
On another note, as we were traveling home, everywhere we stopped, when he was in his uniform, people would come up and shake his hand. They would say thank you and some even told their stories of service. It was a proud and humbling moment to see complete strangers coming up to my son and honoring him. Wow...what a feeling of pride!!

Counting Down

It's been a while since I've written any thoughts. It's been easier knowing that all I have to do is call Cody whenever I want to hear his voice. If I don't get him right away, I know that he will call me as soon as he can. Tonight marks 23 days until he gets released. We get to see him in 22 days. They are supposed to be having a family dinner the night before graduation and then on Friday Sept 4 he will graduate at 9am. They will not release the soldiers until later on that afternoon. I am so excited about getting to spend some Mom & Dad time with him before he gets back to God's Country. I know that when he hits home, our time will be limited because of family and friends that have missed him just as much.
I have said so many times before that I am so proud of him, Clint, and Hunter. They are remarkable men and have made such a lasting impression on so many people. Although I am so thankful that Cody is 'supposed' to be doing the College First program, I'm a little disappointed that he and Hunter won't be serving active duty together. Oh, I do not want either of them to go but, I know that it is inevitable that they will serve. It was just easier knowing that they may be together.
I can't believe that it's been 6 months since I had my balling fit in BankFirst on that day I was taking him to leave. I've had a few teary times but, for the most part, it hasn't been as bad as I thought. I have realized that you have to let them go after a while and trying to hang on to them is really harder than letting them grow. I see friends that are raising small ones and even having babies. I miss those times but,also, I'm so glad that I'm out of that period. I've done my time (don't mean for it to sound like prison) and am looking forward to the time (far away) of helping raise my children's children. That better be a while off though. Don't know if I'm really ready to let go THAT much!
Oh well, so much for rambling. On Sunday, Cody will be starting a 10 day 'experience' where they go to the FOB (don't really know the name of this place) for a 'battlefield' simulation. They will get very little rest or sleep during this phase. This is where they will put everything they have learned to test. Please say some prayers for this time to go quickly and without a hitch. I won't be hearing from him until this part is over so, I know I'll be a little antsy during this time.

Love ya so much Cody and I'm so proud of all you have done. Same goes to you Hunter and Clint. Ya'll are all amazing men!!!

So Proud of You

Cody, I am so proud of your accomplishments. You have proved that whatever you set your mind to, you will do. I am so glad that you are enjoying the field that you so unwillingly (or fate placed you in)had to go into. You have always been a leader and a take charge kindof person. You will do so well as a combat medic. You have always taken care of others. Right now, I need you home to help 'take care of someone else'. That person really needs your advice and concern that only you can provide. You know what I mean... You have always been one that they look up to and can talk to when there are problems. Well, there are problems that need only your advice... And thank you for always being here for them! I know you are only miles away but, when we get you back here, spend as much time as possible nurturing in only your way.

I am so looking forward to August being over. I wish I could just blink and it was be gone. I don't mean to wish my life away but, it's just the way I feel. This has been such a long time to be gone. I know that in the near future, you will be gone for a much longer period of time. I know you are being prepared to go overseas and I realize that you are ready to take that step. It will always scare me to see you and your buddies go over. I'm just so darn proud of your willingness to serve this great country. All of you soldiers are the real heros. I love you so much and can't wait to wrap my arms around you again...

Another Reality Check...

Well, I headed to bed early tonight and as always, I get a call from Cody. I know not to try and go early. We chatted for a while and then he tells me that Hunter B got his call today. He is being deployed to Camp Shelby and then on to Iraq. BAM! A ton of bricks hit me hard! I know that this is what they are training for but, I just thought that it would be a little while before they would have to go. And as Cody explained, this is what they have been trained to do and they look out for each other. They are a family unit and will do everything to help each other out. That is good to know but, these are still our children and it is so hard to let them go. They are truly men and will be out protecting OUR FREEDOM. They are truly brave men and will do our United States proud.
Hunter, I know you probably do not read my blog but, I wish you the very best and pray for God's hedge of protection to be around you at all times. You go out there and do the best you can and I know that will be great because you have always given your all. You have made your family and friends so proud of all you have accomplished. This time will seem like eternity but, we will be welcoming you back here with great pride in saying that we were there when he was making us proud on the ballfields too!!! I love you and wish you godspeed. You will be hearing from me while you're gone...you can count on it!!!!!!!!

The heat is on...

It's been a long summer and it's just started. I've been concerned about the triple digit temps that Cody is having to endure. I know that we all are going through high temps and we just have to drink lots of fluids and keep cool the best we can. But, after talking to him on Thursday night and finding out that they have had 2 soldiers die this week from the heat, I have just had some added worry to this mama mind. The soldiers were from another company but still, they were someone's child. From what I understand, they got up every morning and drank an energy drink before PT drills and passed out. Neither were able to be revived and died. How stupid can someone be??? Very...There are so many young (and older) people that rely on these energy drinks and don't realize that the just dehydrate you in the long run and that leads to major complications. The best thing for your body is just plain old water. Occasional gatorade is good, but water is what your body truly needs. The group at Fort Sam Houston are talking about going to reverse schedules where they will sleep during the hottest part of the day and do the drills and classes during the nights. I know this will be tough to get used to, but due to the excessive heat, it appears to be a good decision. Just a little over 9 weeks left...thank you God!! I really don't want to wish my summer away but, I do wish to get through this heat and get my soldier boy (man) back home. I am going to treasure that fellow like I've never treasured him before. I am so proud of him and all he stands for. He has grown so much since he's been gone. He has matured into a very strong and intelligent man. His values are shining through. There have been some trying times for him out there. So many temptations and aggrevations from some of the guys out there. The lack of discipline has been a real eye opener too. So many of the recruits are really not there for the right reasons and it is showing.
On another note, Cody is doing great with his medic training. His grades are super and at one point, he said he ranked 4th in the group. Of course, when I told
Tommy about this, his comment was..."Why can't he be 1st?". This is typical Tommy...he has always pushed our kids to be the best at whatever they did. Sometimes I thought he pushed them too hard but, all three of them have said that they appreciate the pressure that he placed on them. That pressure made them what they are today. If you're not #1, you lose...Runner up means nothing. So, Cody, keep pushing for the best. I know you can do it. You just have to give the extra mile. Oh, and watching House is not the same as studying...haha You KNOW what I mean!
Cody, I know you read this blog and I just want you to know how very proud I am of you. I know I tell you often, and I will continue. You are doing a wonderful thing by volunteering to serve our country during this difficult time. There is a war going on and that has strenghthened your desire to be a soldier. You and your buddies are great men and are setting such a good example to other people. You will make great leaders in your future and I can't wait to see what this future holds for you, Hunter, and Clint. Again, I am so proud to have been a part of all of this.

I Love You and miss you bunches!!

Missing the Peacekeeper

Well, I've realized that the Peacekeeper in the family is being missed terrible right now. I've told how Mallary and Shelby fight but, for the past couple weeks...OMG has it been terrible!!! They cannot even be in the same room without words flying. Now is the time that we realize that Cody has always been the one that has brought peace and contentment to our family. The girls absolutely adore him and they just can't seem to get along without him. He 'plays' with both of them in a different way. He can pick and fight and laugh the whole time. They seem to enjoy every minute they are together. Right now, that 'glue' is missing. I am so hoping that this next few months passes so quick...
On another note, to help decrease the fighting, Mallary has gotten a job at Macon Medical. Maybe with her time being occupied with a job, she will be so worn out at the end of the day that she won't be so hard to live with. These two girls won't even get in the pool at the same time. So, now Shelby will have her swim/lay out time after her class and not have to deal with the criticism.
But, one day, I know they will get along and actually love each other. I remember not really liking my sisters and I got over it. Now, they are my best friends. So, hopefully, they will be too.
Oh well, needless to say, we are so ready for Cody 'the peacekeeper' to return home. We miss you babe!!

Reality hits

Yesterday I got a text that said..."I'm happy here. I'm proud that I'm in the Army". That first made me happy but, then I had to analyze that simple comment. I had to question what had happened to cause that comment. Nothing was the response. I kept digging and the more I dug, the sadder I became. To the point that I boo hoo'd for quite a while. What hit me was the fact that my little boy was no longer my little boy. He has grown and matured into his own man. He told me that it was going to be weird coming back home. Now, I can take that one statement many ways. But, I do understand what it means. He's learned that he can make it on his own and although I will always be his mother, he can do without some of me. I guess that sorta hurts but, it's part of your children growing up. I want them to need me but, I also want them to not need so much. Seems sorta stupid but, hey, it's how I feel. I realize that when I bring him home in September, that he won't be in my house for very long. I know that he will need his own space and his independence. And, being in the parent's house is not going to be what he needs. I always knew that when Cody left home, he would never be back. I have told Tommy that so much and he always told me that he would come home. But, it's not the same. Now, his coming home is mainly to visit. I know that before, he was anxious to get back to his friends and his own lifestyle. I know, all parents experience this 'empty nest syndrome' in some form or fashion
Then, when I talked with Cody Saturday night, he was frustrated...or maybe we should say mad. They were getting smoked quite often because of a few other people's stupid mistakes. There were some guys that had gotten alcohol and had gotten caught. In the Army, they all pay for one's mistake. They had random drug/alcohol screens, had locker checks that morning, and had to suffer the consequences. Also, today, a couple guys left base to get tattoos and did not return for roll call. The whole platoon payed the price for these guys also. They were supposed to get an off base pass next week and that was taken away. They will now be in lock down all weekend. I know this is so frustrating to the ones that are trying to do right. It makes those think that it really doesn't matter because they have to suffer right along with the troublemakers.
This made me mad that my son was having to go through this. I didn't sleep much last night thinking about this and the true meaning. I came to the conclusion that no punishment is too great when you are going about life in the right way. I know Cody is there for a reason and I feel like God has led him here and we may never know the purpose but, there is one. I think about God letting His Son die on the cross for my (and your) sins. Wow...He paid the ultimate price for our stupid mistakes...before we even made them. This really hit me. I'm bellyaching about a little punishment for minor things and God's Son DIED for mine. It kinda sheds a different light on Cody's situation. If Jesus could bear our sins, I do believe that Cody will make it through this minor punishment. He's strong and has the Saviour on his side. There may be someone there that does not and Cody's strength may be what they need to see. I just keep praying that Cody stays strong in his faith and serves God in all he does. I pray for him and his platoon daily and encourage others to lift them up as well. Include also Hunter and Clint in these prayers because I know they are probably experiencing the same obstacles where they are.

Starting Over

Since my last post, I've been without internet service so, I've got some catching up to do.
The first few weeks at AIT in San Antonio was a shock. I think Cody was expecting a little more freedom and that didn't happen right away. It was a lot like basic training 2 but, hopefully now things are a little more settled with classes and study time. So far, when talking to him, he seems to be enjoying what he's learned. He's really interested in learning more about the human body and how things work. First part of AIT is basically working toward the EMT certification and then on to the actual Medic care. It's a lot to learn in four months time and will take some major study time. The troop was told that a big majority of them would not make it in the medic field. If Cody puts his mind to it, I know he can do it.
He had a somewhat slower weekend last week because of the Memorial Day holiday. I don't get too many details on what they are doing now that I can. It was a treat to get the phone on Sunday but now that it's readily available (somewhat), I have to text 'call your mother'. haha. But, isn't that how it goes?
Oh, now Cody has a new address so here it is....

PFC Boykin, Cody
E Co 232 Med BN (platoon 1)
2950 Koehler Rd Bldg 1350
Fort Sam Houston, TX 78234

Also, Clint Brown's address...

RCT Brown, Clinton B 9270
Kilo Company 3RTBN PLT 3058
Box 16335
Parris Island, SC 29905-6335

In case you forgot Hunter Brown's...
PVT 2 Brown, Hunter J RN207
ECO 2 54 INF
8775 Albanese Dr
Ft Benning, GA 31905

Letters and cards are really appreciated from them. It helps to know that people back home are thinking of you and appreciate what they're doing. All three of these guys are super people and have been true leaders. Help out with the encouragement...and to those that have already...Thanks!!

Reflections

We made it back home Friday night after 12 hours straight driving. Between Shelby and me driving, we made great time. I thought I would write about my thoughts about the last few days so here goes.
There were so many guys of different nationality, beliefs, and all around different values that we met. I was truly impressed by the guys that Cody hung out with. One in particular was Aaron Burgess from California. His dad and little brother were there and we spent some time with them. What impressed me the most was that when we took Cody back that first night, both guys had books in their hands that they were taking to AIT with them. Codys was an Army soldier bible that I had gave him and Burgess' was...another Bible. Wow...that brought a tear to my eye to think that out of 240 men there, Cody had made friends with a fellow Christian. Birds of a feather...
On the last day, we stayed around to observe the end of day rituals. The guys had roll call, dropped for push-ups, repeated cadences, etc. That was really cool to see. But, I also counted my lucky stars for the kind of man that Cody had become. There were men there that had wives, babies, small children, girlfriends, and other family and friends visiting. It was so sad seeing the faces and hearing the cries of the small children that didn't understand daddy being left behind. The babies didn't seem to notice mommy crying because daddy couldn't come home with her.
There were pregnant wives/girlfriends clinging on like their life depended on it. Grown men crying because they were sacrificing their families for OUR COUNTRY. I was so thankful that Cody had held firm to not have a girl left behind. He had said that he didn't want to have someone back home missing and waiting for him. The important women (you know who you are) needed to be able to go out and have a good time and not worry about him. He would be back and if a relationship was meant to be, it would happen at that time. Now was a time for him to focus and dedicate to being the best soldier he could be. For this I thank God that he is going into this with all his heart.
But, no matter how much I enjoyed my time with my family and getting to see my son, I am so glad to be home. They always say that there's no place like home.
I thought it was kinda funny when we got out to the hotel and the manager told us that the next day was supposed to be hot and humid. Well...we told him that we were from Mississippi and we were ready for anything. The wind blew...constantly! The temp got up in the 80s and there was humidity (at least that's what they were saying). Poor Burgess and his family were talking about how miserably hot and sticky they had been all day. We never broke a sweat! Burgess will be spending 5 months in Georgia...we told him to get prepared for a long miserable summer. If Oklahoma was bad, just wait for the Southern summer! California must have wonderful weather all the time because they said that they had never experienced this kind of humidity! Wow...I can't imagine.
We said our goodbyes and watched the troops go up to their barracks. Went to bed preparing to return home the next day. Cody was sceduled to leave for the airport at 7:30 the next morning for a 9:45 flight out to Dallas. To my surprise, he text me that plans had changed and he was leaving at 3:30. The next morning, thinking that he was well on his way, I was called and told that he had been at the airport since 4:00 and the plane wasn't leaving until 9:45. We delayed leaving and went to spend time with him at the airport. When it was announced that the 9:45 flight had been delayed until 10:30, we decided to go on. His flight was postponed 2 more times and finally got off at 12:45. He arrived in San Antonio around 4:30 and is now at Fort Sam Houston.
When I spoke to him today, he said that he thought he was going to like this...Females were there! Oh no...now I have another thing to worry about. Haha. I'm anxious to see what goes on during this time. He's in reception period until Sunday when they will be moved to the AIT site and begin his studies. 4 months to go...I'll keep you posted.

Family Day and Graduation

Well, Family Day finally came. We were supposed to be on base for a 10 oclock Demonstration. I'm sitting at the hotel around 8 just waiting. I have butterflies in my stomach just waiting to see my son. It's been a long time (to me). We finally decide to leave around 8:30. I know an hour and half early. But, I guess we need to make sure we can find the spot. We get on the base and follow the directions (I think). Pull into the first parking lot and there are no cars. We think that we are doing great. We are the first ones here. A soldier walks by and we ask him if we are in the right spot for graduation...nope. We're on the wrong side of the base! You would think that the people at the gates would have told us this. They asked if we were here for graduation and just let us go right in. This gate was on the opposite side of the highway, not like it was just the wrong side of the base!
We finally got to the area that we were supposed to be in and had to stop at a stop sign and let soldiers pass. Boy, Tommy got impatient! He started fussing that they just kept coming and looks like they would let us go ahead...like we were the only ones on base trying to find out soldier!Ha. We had to wait until 10 for the activities to start and at straight up 10, the music started and just to the right of us up ahead we heard the troops marching and chanting. Oh, the butterflies just started fluttering!! They set off smoke bombs and the troops had to march through all this smoke...hey, I'm trying to see my baby! The battery of guys lined up across the field from us. We knew Cody was in the second row, 4th person. Mallary took lots (and I mean lots) of pictures of the guy in the 2nd group, 2nd row, 4th person. I told her that it was not him but she argued with me...Never argue with Mama when it comes to where her baby is! I had found him and...yep...it was him. I asked him is he scratched his back and did some other movements and he said "how'd you know" Mamas just know...
After the demonstrations, where they did an enemy capture routine, showed us combat fights and other manouvers that they had learned, they dismissed back to the bays for instructions for the day. We marched behind the troop and they lined up in formation yet again. I found my boy and when they were told to go up and change for the day, I grabbed him and had to get my squeeze on. I turned around and there was Mallary with tears streaming down her face and she grabbed hold of him and wouldn't let go. Shelby was right behind with the same intent. Tommy didn't force his way throught the crowds to get to him in time. Oh, and Mallary was so persistant in getting to him that she actually shoved this older guy completely out of her way!!! Such force!
I felt like forever before the guys finally came out and boy were the hugs intense when they did appear. We met several of his platoon buddies and their families. Took lots of pictures (all posted on facebook).
Since Cody has had Army rations for the last 10 weeks, whatever he wanted, he got! We started out at Pizza Hut where he enjoyed himself. Went to the mall and hung out with some of his buddies and their families. Then back to the hotel for a little rest and computer time. He hasn't had his computer until this time. We went to Longhorn for steaks later that afternoon. He had to be back on base at 8:30, so we went on early and hung out at the PX and back at the bay. It was hard to let him go back, but I knew we would be together again the next day.
We got to the hotel right before a major storm hit. The lightening was spectacular!! We were awaken around 12:30 with hail hitting the window. Sounded like someone throwing rocks at us but, we were on the 3rd floor so, we knew that wasn't possible. The storms were gone when we got ready to leave the next morning.
Now, we are at the Graduation site and there are crowds of people waiting in line. Of course, we were an hour early here too. We were waiting on the doors to open, and when they did, Mallary shot out like a rocket!!! We were one of the first in line. When we got down to the front row, Mallary and another Mom were into a word battle!!! Mallary was telling her to go find her another row because this one was hers and she wasn't budging! Tommy sat inbetween these two and he told them both to 'shut up' several times...I made Mallary and Shelby swap places in order to put some space between them. Burgess' dad and brother ended up swapping with the lady in order to put a little more space between them. After all, Burgess' family knew this lady and Burgess and this mom's son are both friends with Cody. We had even hung out with this group the day before...not today. haha
Funny thing about that fight, the soldiers were seated in the rows next to us. I looked over, and 7 people away...there was Cody. He heard the whole thing and couldn't even laugh!! How's that for control?
I was so proud of Cody. He graduated in the top 10% of the class! What an honor for him. After the ceremony, we had to sign them out. The Drill Sargent started a clipboard around for us to sign and this is where I got into it with another mom...like mother, like daughter... The clip board was with the lady beside me and another person put her hand on it and got it as soon as the one before signed. Well, I put my hand on it as this lady was signing. The lady beside me looked and told me that she had been standing there first. Huh!! NO...She had not...as I so politely told her. I got the board next!!! She placed her hand on it while she fussed the entire time I was signing and when I got done, I passed the board right on over to Burgess' dad!! There, fuss now lady!
We fed Cody good againg and visited a Museum. Cody said something about just hanging at the hotel so, that's where we are now as I'm blogging. Bless my sweet son's heart, he is sound asleep on the bed. Poor thing hasn't had much sleep lately. He had forewatch last night again.. I am enjoying the sound he makes when he sleeps and being able to glance over and see his precious face!! Oh what bliss...
We have to take him back tonight at 8:30 again and he leaves for San Antonio at 7 AM. Things will be more lenient there and he will be able to call home more often. That makes me feel better and I know that after making this first 10 weeks, the next 12 will go fast too. He has matured so much in this little while and I am anxious to see the transformation in September when I go out to see him and BRING HIM HOME!!!

Anticipation

We left out around 6 Monday night and drove to Pine Bluff, AR. We finally found a hotel around 12 after the first one being totally booked. This hotel was sorta on the pitiful side. But, nowhere near as bad as the one the ballteam stayed in at Ferriday, LA (if anyone remembers that!!). The air conditioner did not work and it was a long 5 hour rest! But, really, who could sleep? We made it to Lawton, OK around 3 on Tuesday but, we had to pass by Fort Sill before we got to our hotel. That was really, really hard. I think I have done good up til now but, when I saw that sign, and thought that my son was behind that gate...I teared up. Now, I didn't cry. That was hard to hold back but, I didn't want Tommy to think I was a total idiot.
Sleep came early Tuesday night. We were all tired from lack of sleep the night before. But, of course we stayed up to see Idol (go Adam). Dark just would not come... It was almost 9 when darkness fell. Just as we hit the pillows, I got a call from Cody. No sleep yet!! He was excited. He was chosen as an honorary graduate. That means that he was selected out of 244 people. Only the top 10% will be awarded this honor. Like I've said before, I am so proud of Cody.
Will add more later...

Basic is OVER!!

Cody called this afternoon with the "I'm done". Wow! Has it been 10 weeks...YES! He is helping his platoon members get their jackets in order for graduation ceremonies. They are having to do a thorough cleaning for the commander's inspection. Hmmm think this cleaning will continue once he comes home??? We'll see.
We are leaving Monday afternoon and heading to Oklahoma. Mallary and Shelby will both be able to go. Thank you Lord!! Mallary will be taking her final on Monday at 3:00 and she will appreciate any prayers put out there!! hint hint. I'm starting to get giddy as a school girl thinking about seeing Cody. Sounds kinda dumb, but I sure have missed that fellow. There's something about those sons! They sure know how to wrap their Mom around their little finger!! But, girls do that to their Dad so...Oh well.
This experience has really made a change in Cody. When I talk to him, I hear a maturity that wasn't there before. I think he appreciates family and home. Things he always took for granted are now things that he can look forward to. I am so anxious to see where this new area of his life will take him. I can't wait to see what is in store for his future. He's gonna do great things. Of course, I'm prejudiced!
Clint Brown leaves for the Marines in a couple days...keep him in your prayers as well as Hunter and their parents. I know how hard it is to have one son away, I can't imagine both. They are great men and will do well. Good luck Brown men!!

The people you meet

I am getting so excited about going out to see Cody next week. I have missed that boy (man) more than you know. That smile that makes me melt is what I want to see more than anything. That way I know that he really is OK. I miss those little things. The way is eyes glow when he tells his stories, the little curl on the side of his face (when he has hair), hearing his voice anytime I need to...just a few little things I've taken for granted. We are all looking forward to this trip. Just pray for Mallary that her instructors let her take her exam one day early on Monday so that she can go with us. We plan on leaving after work Monday.
I titled this note 'The people you meet' because of people that Cody has come in contact with over the past couple years. As I wrote before, he had gotten to be buddies with Washington State and come to find out, he was a gang member. He has now gone back to his family and home. Hopefully everything will work out for him and maybe he will take a little bit of Cody back with him. As I was talking with Cody on Sunday, I told him about the kidnapping at MSU. This actually took place at his old dorm (the ghetto as he called it). After a while, he sorta laughed and told his story. He and his buddies (Hunter H and Clint) were going to the Sanderson Center to work out quite regular. Here, they made friends with this BIG black guy. They seemed to get along pretty well, as they always do with strangers. It got to be a ritual to go work out with 'Danny'. Well, the kicker is that Danny is THE guy that was arrested for kidnapping, sexual battery, and impersonating a police officer. WOW! Now, I have allowed my son to become friends with gang members and convicts! Haha What a protective mom I've turned out to be! Oh well, all you can do is raise them with values and hope and pray that these values hold firm in their later years. I know Cody is going to be ok because he has proven over and over what a true man he really is. I'm so proud of him and his values that he shows on a daily basis. He's told me about several other people that he is with but, thankfully, the others haven't seemed to be too bad. But, who knows, things may change.
Gotta go on to work now. Just felt that I needed to go ahead and get this little tidbit of information down before I forgot. Post more later.

2 more weeks...Hooah!!

Today marks the 2 weeks left mark! I'm so pumped about making the trip to Oklahoma. I've reserved the hotel, reserved the rental car (since mine has died), and just sitting back waiting to see my soldier. We're hoping Mallary and Shelby both get to go with us. All three kids seem to really want to see each other and miss each other. Ten years ago, I never would have thought this would happen. I truly thought they hated each other the way they fought. Go figure...they have grown up.Since Mallary and Shelby have not been apart, they still act like they can't stand each other. The ride will be interesting since they are rarely ever in the same room together without major cutdowns going on. But, I'm planning on stocking up on benadryl for Mallary and knocking her out the entire trip!! Between that and her downing Pepto Bismal, she should be rather quite. I hope!! So, please pray that we can avoid a fighting match being cooped up in a vehicle for such a long time.
Cody called on Sunday and didn't really have much to say. He talked about his week and the training that was done. He really loved the machine guns! Man I'm sure he had a ball!! You know how these guys from the South love their guns. He has teamed with another soldier and they are doing extra physical activity just to get a leg up. They are doing the required PE for Airborne school whereas when you leave or come in the bay, you have to do 25 pushups. They are doing 25 pushups when they leave and 25 situps when they come in. So now, he can bust out 50 situps without breaking a sweat. I've been sending cough drops and candy and he actually sold some of the fun size butterfingers making $25 off a small bag! What an businessman!! He asked me to send a 'bunch of junk' last week. I packed a box with soft drinks, chips, chips ahoy, oreos, snickers, m & m's, butterfingers, etc. for him to share with the platoon. Several of them have been getting 'care packages' and share with each other so, the drill sargents are letting them have the stuff. I guess the low stress cycle has it's advantages.
When we go out for graduation, we will have one day for family day and the next day will be graduation. Cody will then leave about 2 hours after on a bus to San Antonio (for 4 months...I try not to think about that though). I am now worrying about him going down there because of the Swine Flu. Guess mama's have to have something to worry about!

Playing Catch-up

It's been a while since I have updated anyone so, here's the run down
Cody went to sick bay and was given Mucinex, cough drops, and Tylenol. When he called the next Sunday, he had completely lost his voice. All he could do is whisper so, that conversation was a little hard. He had coughed so much during the nights that he was wiped out. The next Sunday when he called, the voice was better. Just sounded gruff. But, as we Moms do, I could tell he was still weak and not completely well. Although he said he was ok.
He missed the grenade throwing which was a little dissappointing to him but is due to make that up before graduation. He really was looking forward to that being a pitcher/center fielder in high school! They have gone on several overnight camps and I believe that Cody felt like he was back home being able to be in the woods and all. Last weekend, he talked about fighting. There were organized fights where he said that he was fighting a guy from another platoon and this other guy did not score any points against Cody but in the end, they were "locked up" (whatever that means) and the drill sargent (who was over the platoon the guy he was fighting) called the other guy the winner. As those of you that know Cody, He was mad. HE was the one that scored the most points. I just told him that life was not always fair and for him to do the best he can and go on. He fought again the next day and the fight was called due to Cody bleeding too much. The other guy had left a pen in his pocket and it cut Cody on the temple area. The blood flows pretty heavy from this area and he said that it was running down his chin but, due to 'safety' precautions, the fight had to be ended. With all the bloodwork they did on each soldier before they start, you would thing they would know if someone has a potential lifethreatening disease.
I got his pictures in the mail this week and I am so proud of my soldier! Gonna post that picture real soon. Arevelo left last week and is not with his family in Washington State. I hated that he couldn't finish out the training but, that's the Army way. Cody has written me about several people he has met while in Oklahoma and these people will always remain with Cody. Some good and some bad.
This was just a short rundown of the past couple weeks. I am waiting on my weekly call now so, I'll post more later on today.

Tending to the sick

As you may already know, Cody called Sunday and sounded awful. He had been sick since Thursday and was running a fever. Said that he was burning up and felt worse. He was coughing and couldn't talk. For him to want to go to sick call told me just how bad it had to be. That broke me down for the second time. I think I've done pretty good with him gone. But, just knowing your child is sick and needs TLC, absolutely breaks a mama's heart. I can just see him sitting there with those cheeks red like they get when he's hot and tired or running a fever. I have always been in a position to meet all their needs. Working in a clinic when they were young always gave me the advantage to catch any sickness early and head it off before they really got bad. Now, all I can do is sit back and pray that he gets the care he needs and recovers on his own. As Tommy keeps telling me, "he's a man now and you have to let him go". Easier said than done.
I got a text this afternoon telling me that he had waiting all day at sick call (kinda like a free clinic going in and sitting ALL DAY before being seen). He was given the generic cold remedy in Basic...Tylenol, Mucinex, and Cough drops. At least he got that. Before, he could only have Hall's Defense Vitamin C drops. But, Mama took care of that...enough said on that part. Haha...I'll have to tell that story off the internet! Let's just say, I can be crafty when I need to.
Hopefully, Cody will be able to make up today's activity. He was supposed to start learning about grenades and he was excited about that. Thinks that he will do great throwing them being an ex-pitcher/center fielder. Thanks to Arevalo (Washington State), I was able to communicate this afternoon. Arevalo is waiting to be sent home so he doesn't have to live by the same rules right now. He is still Cody's bunkmate but doesn't have to go to marches and the other activities unless he wants to. He also gets to have his cell phone with him. Thankfully, he let Cody get a few messages out so I wouldn't have to worry until the next phone dispursement. As I hear more, I will update. Later....

"Ain't nothin like bein tough"

Tommy got a letter from Cody today that really showed the maturity that has transpired since Cody left. It left both of us speechless. Tommy's comment was 'Boy, I never thought I would be thanked for spanking them'. This letter touched us both in such a way that I have to share it...sorry Cody.

Sometimes I overlook all the things you have taught me. Things like Respect, Loyalty, Responsibility, Determination. You taught me how to push through when something gets too hard. And my favorite one, "Ain't nothin like bein tough". Pretty much everything they are teachin us here. While everyone else is struggling through the work I just suck it up and drive on. When someone is telling us what we need to do everyone else fights back and complains. I just do what I need to. It's almost like Basic Training teaches what most parents fail to teach. I'm glad I learned it from you and Mama. I see the lack of respect that others show and I'm glad I'm not like that. If anyone needs proof that whipping your kids makes them better adults, they can just look at us. I know that no situation can get the better of me because of the values you taught me. Just wanted to let you know that your hard work didn't go to waste. And no matter what I do I will always try my hardest to make you proud. Love Cody

He called Tuesday and again Thursday. He did his final Basic Rifle Marksmanship test and the day was extremely windy with 45-50 mile an hour winds. He got 34 out of 40 which ranked him as a sharp shooter. Too bad the wind was so high cause I feel sure he would have done better. Course, I'm sorta biased. The winds have been a pain with major dirt storms. He said that some of the meals were literally covered with dirt and their faces were almost black from it. He is ready to leave Oklahoma and return to land with some trees. The flat plains are not something that Cody wants to remain on. I do believe he sorta misses Mississippi. Can you believe that?? His platoon ranked first in this BMR exercise. There were 31 out of 60 that passed and the ones that did not were going to get a second chance and if they didn't pass it, they would be recycled. Or, start over. Thank God that Cody passed!!
On another note, Washington State is returning home on Saturday. I wish he would get to remain and be able to finish the Basic Training at least but, the Army makes the decisions. So, whatever you do in your past, it will always come back to bite you in the butt...Just have to make amends and go on. But, Cody has made friends with several others and seems upbeat about the rest of the time left. We are looking forward to going out in May. It seems like it's been forever since I've wrapped my arms around my little boy and now I'll be wrapping them around a man. So, I guess I have to let them grow up sometime...Those of you that have little ones, cherish each day as if it's the last because the time sure goes fast. But, no matter how they mature, when they say (or text) those four words...I love you Mama...it just makes your heart swell.
Till next time....

Excellent Marksman

The past week at basic was a little more fun from what I've heard. They went on a 5 mile hike/camping trip. The left on Monday and got the tents up and that night the tornado sirens went off. They ended up staying up most of the night watching the weather. Cody said that was pretty cool. They did lots of shooting and stuff. He said he made excellent marksman which is a pretty big deal. Also, Mallary got two turkeys with one shot today so, that just makes a Mama proud. What I always wanted was some excellent shooters for kids. haha.
Well, about Washington State, he is still there and apparently he and Cody have gotten to be pretty good friends. His name is Cristover Arevelo and he is Japanese/Mexican. He sounds like a pretty nice guy that just got into the wrong things. Hopefully he is trying to change his life. He may still be going home and has a psych evaluation being done tomorrow. Cody says that he doesn't seem crazy to him but, look at some of Cody's friends. LOL.
I got Hunter Brown's address from Karen this week and sent him a card. I know they appreciate any encouragement that they can get so here is his. I wish some of you would keep him and Cody in your thoughts and prayers and send them some encouragement.

PFC Boykin, Cody L
BTRY C, 1st BN, 40th FA
5611 Rothwell St, Unit C1
Fort Sill, OK 73503-8024


PV2 Brown, Hunter J RN 207
ECO 2 54 INF
8775 Albanese Dr
Ft Benning, GA 31905

I've got 45 days before I get to see Cody again. They days are going pretty fast but, I keep thinking after graduation, it will be another four months before he comes home. But, he is looking forward to the medic training so that is encouraging. Hopefully, in that time, he can decide what he truly wants to do in the future. It's a tough decision to make when you're thinking about the rest of your life. Keep him and his choices in your prayers and thanks for following.

Loving the Medic

Got a letter today and it truly made me smile. Cody was having trouble sleeping and wrote about his day. He got up at 5:30 and went on a 5K hike. They then had a Situational Training Experience (or STX). This is were they are basically doing a mock field injuries. His situation was an injured soldier with an amputated hand, severe leg lacerations, and severe chest trauma. He had to assess the situation and secure the soldier. Here, he had to apply tourniquets since that is all they can do until they can secure the surroundings and get the soldier out of danger. He had to rig a stretcher and carry him out of harms way. There he had to take care of the injuries and insert chest tubes. I was so proud when he said that he LOVED IT! He is so excited about getting back and hopefully getting on with an ambulance service as an EMT. I, as well as several family members, have tried to talk him into going into the nursing field, but, he has refused at every level. He said that he did not want to be called a 'male nurse'. I think it's the stigma that some people have about that name. But, I really hope this training will make him think seriously about this field. I have always told him that he would make a great ER nurse or ICU/Trauma nurse and that these areas really needed men. But, like I've said over and over, God has a plan for Cody. This is also part of that plan. He will be going to San Antonio, TX in May to do the specialty training in the Medic field so, I'm anxious to see how that phase will change him. At least he's enjoying some parts of the experience.
Keep him in your prayers as well as Washington State. I have had no word on his situation but, I'm hoping he will get to remain in Cody's presence and that Cody will be able to have a positive influence on him.
Later.....

A different perspective

You know, in my blog yesterday, I made the comment about trying to protect your children and now mine being in the company of a gang member. It took a very dear friend to turn my opinion around and I don't know if she realizes what her words meant to me. Thanks so much Joy!
You see, I was concerned about Cody being in contact with known gang members and the realization was that this is God's plan. Washington State may be actually need Cody in order to truly turn his life around. I talked to Washington State yesterday and really wish I had told him that I pray for him every day as well. That is where I've failed. But, I have been praying for him because he's the only one that Cody has truly talked about when he calls. Washington has been a friend to Cody in that when Cody was sick, he had medicine prescribed (a coincidence) for himself, that he shared. I know, you're not supposed to share prescription drugs. But, it was Ibuprofen and Mucinex. Exactly what Cody needed. Washington had gone to the ER the weekend before to have a cyst removed and was given this medicine because he had the 'start' of a cold. It never progressed to the point that he truly needed it. So, there you go... Cody needed it.
In the message that I got from this dear friend, she told me that maybe Washington State needed Cody. That Cody may be the only example of God that he has ever known. I now pray that Washington State gets to remain in the ANG in order to truly see the person Cody is and that Cody is able to be the example that he needs. I challenge all of you to pray for this young man. I don't know is real name and it really doesn't matter. I do hope to get an update Sunday and hope to be able to tell him that I am praying for him also. Just to let him know that someone else out there cares for him even though they don't know him personally.

The Gas Chamber

I've gotten to talk to Cody a couple times today. It has been an busy week for him. He has been doing his basic rescue training this past week. He has learned to take care of different types of wounds and starting IVs. He got the IV on the dummy arm without a problem but when starting it on the actual person, he had the correct technique but, the guy had spider veins. He went in ok but, the vein rolled on him and he missed it or went through it. I've had that happen to me several times. Too bad he couldn't have gotten someone with ropes for veins like he has. But, he passed with a 97 average which was pretty good.
On Saturday, he had to do the gas chamber drill. This is where you are placed in a room with your gas mask on and you are made to take the mask off and see how you do or how long you can withstand it. He said that this was horrible!! He did ok at first when they just broke the seal but, when the entire mask came off, he didn't take a deep breath before taking the mask off. He coughed and sputtered for hours after but, one good thing was that he got over his cough and cold. I don't think he recommends this way of ridding yourself of the common cold! haha.
They are packing for a camping and artillery challenge this week. I hope this is a better week for him since he will be doing some shooting. This is one thing he has been excited about. The drill sargents have been 'major asses' this week...guess it's their jobs though! There are still guys that are not doing as they should. There are many that are being sent back home this week due to failure to adapt. Cody's bunkmate "Washington State" may actually be sent back home soon too. He was formally in a gang back in Washington and 'cleaned himself up', and this is a no no for the military. He recieved a call from his girlfriend this week saying that a rival gang had rode by and shot up his house. The girlfriend was once the girlfriend of one of the rival gangmembers. So much drama!! You know, you do everything to keep you kids safe and in the right company and now they go off and join the military and get put with gangmembers!!! But, I know Cody's heart and the values that he has lived by and continues to live by and know that I have nothing to worry about. He actually said that he misses Mississippi!! He's ready to get back to where the people are 'normal'. LOL
Today I have 51 days until I get to see Cody. The time has really gone by fast and I know that it will be here before I know it. I can hear the maturity in his voice each time he calls. This is truly a great experience for him and for me. I think he truly appreciates the life he has lead when before he would imagine being somewhere else and doing things different. Again, I am so proud of you Cody (if you're reading this) and know you are gonna make a great soldier!

Sore throat and fever

Tommy and I were on our way to Meridian today and I got my weekly phone call. The cell phones have been taken up during the week and are given back on Sunday afternoon. So, now I feel better knowing what the routine will be. He got the charger last Monday and didn't get in trouble for that package. I asked about the cakes and he laughed saying that the drill sargent just shook his head when he opened the box full of bundt cakes. He said that he had seen it all now. He had seen a lot of stuff sent but never a box full of bundt cakes!! haha But, they still haven't eaten them...was supposed to get them tonight but, haven't yet. They will probably be ruined by the time they think about them again. So, needless to say, I won't be sending anymore food.
Cody said that basic has not been as bad as he was expecting. They are being a little easier on them now as apparently there were a couple suicides last January. They are being a little more humane and trying to prevent any further tragedies. I can't imagine it being that bad but, you never know what may be in some of those heads. Cody's group passed the obstacle training last week and will go on to IV administration this week. They will have to start IV's on each other before the week is out. I told him that he should do good and that even Mallary had started her first one this week...first try!! Woo hoo! I'm a proud Mom.
He's a little under the weather right now. He's been waking up with a sore throat and running fever but, if you know Cody, he won't do anything about it. He doesn't want to miss anything or get behind. This is the same guy that played football with bronchitis, fever, and below freezing temps!! He's always been a fighter and gives 110% in all he does. I just wish that I could get some medicine to him but, it's not permitted. He could go to sick bay but doesn't want to miss a day and possibly get behind. Hopefully, this is an indicator of the type worker he will be in the future.
He has gotten a lot of letters and appreciates all of them. He actually said that that is where he stands out. He gets letters every day. I know it has really helped knowing how much everybody cares and thanks for all that has been sent and will be sent in the future.
Well, gotta go for now and will update soon

DogTag

I've gotten letters pretty regular now and each of them has told about Cody's day. It's been really busy getting up early, doing PT drills, learning shooting skills, etc. All of the letters have been just basic day to day updates but, one letter had a welcome surprise. He said that he had recieved an extra set of dogtags and had sent the extra one home to me. When I pulled that dogtag out of that envelope, you would have thought I'd been given a diamond ring!! I held that little piece of tin in my hand so tight almost as if I were holding him. As I opened my hand to read his name and ID the tears just flowed. That little piece of metal was the most precious thing I'd been given. For Cody to think about sending it home to his Mama was the sweetest gift of all. I now have that piece of metal with me every minute of the day. It represents more that you can imagine just having a little piece of him. Boy, this is gonna be a long couple of months.
Now, today I got a letter from the Commander at the base telling what you could and could not send to the soldiers. At the bottom of the DO NOT SEND list was...baked goods and packages...OH BOY!! I have just committed TWO of those. First, the package containing the phone charger and then the package of pound cakes! But, in my defense, CODY TOLD ME TO SEND THESE THINGS!! I just hope that he hasn't gotten in any trouble for these. Maybe one of his future letters will inform me of this. Oh well, can't undo the wrong.
His letter yesterday was full of frustration. He said that he had several in his platoon that (in his words) 'don't give a shit'. He said that they wouldn't shut their mouth when in formation, wouldn't get out of bed when they were supposed to, and tried to tell everybody else what to do. The drill sargents were basically letting the other platoon members straighten things out. He was wanting to go to the drill sargents and ask them to be harder on everyone so that something would start to take shape. There are a few of them that truly want to do good and that are trying to be leaders. He has always wanted perfection and it is frustrating to him when other's don't try. Hopefully, these few slackers won't extend their basic training period.
On another note, I heard from Hunter Brown on Friday and he was almost to Fort Benning, GA. So, thankfully, he has gotten to get started without too much hassle. I know he was dissappointed when he didn't get to go on time but, at least he's not been held up now. Good luck Hunter and I know you'll do great!

My First Meltdown

I guess I've just experienced my first meltdown since Cody left. I've been getting texts from him every night until Sunday. We talked for quite a while on that day and even sent me pictures of him with his gun...guess you know that since I blogged about it already. Well, Mallary, Shelby, and I got letters from him and we all wrote 2 -3 page letters each back to him. I have gotten a letter and sent one back every day since. But, today there was no letter. When I opened up that post office box, there was just empty space. I guess I had gotten accustomed to reading about his day. One of the letters he sent said that he felt like I was face to face when he was writing about his day. That is was comforting to be able to tell me what happened. I've just had this 'gut feeling' that today hasn't been a good one for him. It's just a 'Mama-thing' I guess. I decided to go to the Jr Sr Play tonight and something made me go in Cody's truck. Well, the smell got to me...not that it stunk. haha. But, you know that 'Cody cologne' smell that you just associate with only him...that is what I mean. I just drove and let the tears flow. I haven't done this since he left and thought I would get through it without it. NOT. But, after a long talk with God and accepting that Cody is in His hands and is following the plan that is only his, I am better now.
Well, Tuesday night, I baked 3 pound cakes to send to Cody and his platoon. Boy was that a long night! I packed them up and set out for the post office thinking that I would overnight them and they would get them on Thursday. When I was told 'That will be $57', I bout stroked!! Then, I was told that it would not get there till Friday because Shuqualak did not have an overnight pickup. Priority mail would arrive on Friday also so, it went priority! Hopefully they got there before they started rotting. Wouldn't that make a good impression!! haha
Keep Cody in your prayers as well as Hunter Brown. Hunter didn't get to ship out on his date Monday but, I heard from him today that he was supposed to ship out on Friday. Hopefully, he won't be delayed any longer. I know that he is anxious to get this part over with. Oh, also keep Karen and Bud in your prayers cause they truly have a life changing event here with both sons going into the military. All three guys are great examples for our younger generation. I'm so proud of all of them!!

M16 and Bulletproof vest

We went to Tennessee this weekend to visit Tommy's family and Cody laughs saying that we wait until he leaves to start taking trips!! It was a good trip and we came home thankful for so many things. We got to spend the day with our 'great' niece (boy that sounds like we're old) and that was super! Also saw pictures of the second 'great' nephew. Justin (who is 4 months older than Cody) just had a little boy (9lb 2 oz). This makes me thankful for my children waiting...enough said!! Now Kara (mom to niece Avery) waited and is a great mom!! Love ya Kara! But, like I said I am so thankful for my level-headed bunch. Now, I still have one more to get out of high school so, I could be putting my foot in my mouth. Hope not!! haha
On the way home, I got my call from Cody. He sounds so upbeat and kinda like he's having fun! You know him. He said that so far basic hasn't been too bad for him. They have to do lots of push ups because of this one guy who won't act right. I do believe that he will be getting a little adjustment and soon. Cody was really upbeat about getting his M16A2 and bulletproof vest. He has always loved messing around with guns and ammunition. His Papaw has been instrumental in this obsession. He's been showing him guns and knives since he came into this world so, this is just a little more high tech play for him. He also said that Fort Sill was doing something new now and letting them keep their cell phones to use on Sunday call days. He's gotten some texts out and even posted a picture or two on facebook. This has really helped me with the empty nesting. They can also recieve 'cakes and pies'! NO CANDY!! He asked for brownies to be sent...enough for 60 people!! haha ..Think this will be some major baking!! But, you know me...anything Cody wants...Cody gets. Or so my girls say.
Thanks again for all the prayers and encouraging words. We have truly felt each of them and know that they are the reason this period has gone so smooth so far. I am so proud of Cody and my Brown boys for the choices that they have made. I know they will make America proud!

Moving on to basic site

Well, I've been so lucky to be able to talk to Cody every night since he left. He found another guy that had an iPhone and has been able to borrow his charger. His days have been busy with the reception period. During this time, they have been oriented to Army life, gotten uniforms, and rounds of shots. I did get informed that Cody almost got the Bicillin shot, in which he is highly allergic! He kept telling them that he couldn't take it and they weren't listening to him. Just as they were getting ready to give it, something stopped them and they looked at his records. There in bold print was ALLERGIES: PENICILLIN. They told him, "Boy, I'm glad I double checked that! You would have been in trouble!" Duh...
Last night, they were packing up for the move to the basic training site. Wake up was at 3:30 this morning and he didn't really know when the next call would be made. I'm trying to prepare for the 3 week no contact period. It seems like a long time, but I know that it will be over before I know it.
I don't really have a lot of updates at this time but, I do want to thank all my friends and family as well as Cody's friends for their prayers and comments. These truly help! Also, keep Hunter Brown in your prayers as he is preparing to leave for his ANG training period next week and Clint Brown will be leaving in April for the Marines. I am so proud of all these young men! They are true leaders in every way. I know they will be true American heroes! They will always hold a special place in my heart...
I will update as soon as I know anymore from OK....Thanks for being a follower!

Still waiting to begin basic

Sitting here tonight networking (Facebooking) and Cody's picture pops up on my phone then goes off. My heart flips and then I wonder what happened. I thought that he was trying to call me and his phone battery died. As I said in my previous post, his battery was almost gone and no charger available. I took a chance and called back. Then, I heard that beautiful voice that I so longed to hear. We did the casual small talk and he really sounded good. He hasn't started the basic training yet. He said it looks like it may be next Wednesday before they would be moved to their basic location. They are still having more people arrive and having to be processed. He had all his shots and lots of bloodwork done yesterday and said that he handled that very well. In the past, he has gotten pale and lightheaded when he has had to have blood drawn. On Thursday, he had Fire Watch at 3 am and thought that was kinda cool...but early. The day begins at 4 am and lights out at 8 pm.
Remember the guy that I told about in my first Post? His name is 'Tate' and he is at Fort Sill with Cody. Now, Tate left alone with his transporter and was headed to Memphis for MEPS, where Cody, Corey, and the 2 other guys were taken to Jackson. Cody said that he was walking around the base and low and behold, there was Tate! He said that Tate was a little jumpy and seemed kinda scared but looked like he was relieved to see a familiar face.
In one of their meetings, they were going over what to expect and what they were told when they signed, and many of them raised their hands when asked if the recruiter lied to them to get them to sign. Cody said that it was so many that actually raised their hand, that he raised his too so that he wouldn't be singled out for anything. But, he said that Sgt Moore had been straight up with him and had told him exactly like it would be. I can't imagine getting somewhere like that and finding out that everything that I had believed had been a lie.
I am so thankful for each and every call that I have gotten because all of them were not expected. Cody sounds so good and positive. We just talked for at least 30 minutes and this is really a first. Usually when we talk, it is just what needs to be said and nothing more but, this time, it was really different. I know there will be lots of changes in him when he gets back and look forward to seeing the man he is to become. I just hope he doesn't loose the Cody that he truly is...

Unexpected contacts

Well, since Cody left on Monday, I've actually gotten to hear from him a few times which has been an unexpected pleasure. He had not intended to take his cell phone with him since he would have to turn it in at the base. At the last minute, he decided to take it. He didn't have a charger so, he said he would use it sparingly. He called before he went to bed on Monday and told me that he felt like he had turned into his Daddy. It was 8:00 and he was tired and going to bed...WOW...that is a first! His roomate for the night was actually an older guy that was married with four kids. I bet that goodbye was hard! When I woke up the next morning, I had a 'good morning. I love you!' message that truly made my day.
They went through their physicals and 'stuff' and were taken to the airport in Jackson around 11:30 and were left to wait on the flight out to Dallas at 3:55. A whole day sitting in an airport! So...after, I recieved update texts until he got to the base around 10:00 Tuesday. I didn't expect to get another call until later in the week but, was suprised to get one on Wednesday night. He really sounded up and ready to get started. Complained that everything was just taking so long...just like him to want to jump right in and get going.
I have really handled all of this well. I have suprised myself. I truly believe that it has been due to the prayers and kind words from friends and family that I have. I thank all of you that have been there for us. I know that this is just a stepping stone that people go through everyday, it's not something that I thought I would ever be facing. I have had contact from other parents that have kids in basic training right now that have been a big help. Hopefully, it will get easier everyday.

He's on his way

So, we left for Starkville this morning. He has an account at BankFirst where he has a debit card that he has to take with him. A couple weeks ago, we got a notice that there was an issue that warranted sending a new card. The new card came in and after he opened the envelope, he placed the card in his wallet (along with his old card and his dad's card). When he got to the bank to change his PIN, the card was gone. This was a week ago Wednesday. So, he got them to cancel the new card and reorder one with a rush on it... As of last Wednesday, the new card has still not come in...we called and checked Thursday and Friday. It finally came Saturday...whew! Long story short...we had to go by the bank to change the PIN since the following mail with the PIN had not arrived and boy did I loose it!! Ms Ethel Kinard came over and asked Cody when he was leaving. He told her that he was on his way now. I started the waterfalls and could not stop! Thank you Carol Reynolds...I needed your words of encouragement! Shelby was there patting me on the arm (probably embarrassed that her mom was acting a nut). I finally composed myself and boo hooed all the way to Starkville! Bless you Cody for putting up with your crybaby mom!
Once we got the the Army drop off site, we went inside and Cody knocked on the door. They let him in (sorta like they used to do at Mac's Supper Club). All I heard was "Boykin you're 14 minutes....". That scared me! I thought "oh no...now he's in trouble because I got the time wrong". They then opened the door and let us in and told me that he was actually 14 minutes early. Again whew! The guy and his family in front of us was getting all the info about basic and what to expect. They told this mother that her son would be going to basic, then AIT, then directly to Iraq...that made my heart flip. This mother did not know her son would be going! I thought "Oh NO!! Somebody just lied to us!" But, this guy did not sign up for College First. Another whew!!
Sargent Winters calmed a lot of my fears and seeing the interaction between Cody and the upperclassmen (whatever they are called) made me proud. They all told me that he and Hunter Brown were their favorites!!! Go guys! They were two of the best that they had had enlisted in a while. This came from several guys at different times throughout the day. All fears went away and I truly felt God's presence in this place! WOW!! I felt like I had just gotten a big ole hug and was wrapped in His love. I realize that there is a reason for this and Cody is being sent for something or someone. I can't wait to see what God has in store for him.
Thank you Hunter H and Taryn for coming and seeing him off. That truly kept my tears at bay. Just knowing the support he has from friends and family is awesome. He was constantly on the phone with people texting and calling wishing him well. He and I both had facebook posts as well as texts saying the same thing. I do appreciate all the care and concern.

Getting Ready

Well, this is the day that I am supposed to be taking Cody to leave for Basic Training. Was having a little trouble sleeping so, I decided to create a blog for everyone to keep up with his progress. I plan on updating after every phone call or letter that I get.
Almost one year ago, Cody met me at Zaxby's and told me that he was thinking about joining the military. Although he has 'joked' about it in the past, I knew in my heart that he was serious this time. He explained that he was not doing this for the 'money' they were offering but, he truly wanted to have this experience. After many talks and getting him to check out different military divisions, he chose the Army National Guard. His dream was to fly helicopters but, this was not meant to be. While he was gone for his physical, I got a phone call one day at work. I was in North MS Medical Center ICU and recieved a call from Sgt Moore. This was kinda disturbing, so I stepped out and took it. He told me that Cody had just gone through his physical and they had found that he was color-blind. We had never known this and this scared me due to what would be told to me next. Sgt Moore went on to explain that Cody would not be able to do many things in the military due to this problem. Medic was one of the things that was now available (this is not available in any other military branch). He said that being colorblind would knock him out of being on the front lines or flying. After this sunk in, I asked him "Now what's bad about that?". He laughed and told me that this was probably good news for me but, Cody was upset because of his dream to fly.
So, here we are today.I'm getting ready to take him for a 7 month 'trip' and am having a hard time letting him go. I'm trying to be strong and not let him see the tears (tough at times). He will be going to Starkville today and be taken to Jackson tonight. There, he will be put up in the Marriott for the night, have a great meal, and have a mini-physical done tomorrow. From there, he will be taken to Fort Sill, Oklahoma. He will be in Oklahoma for about 10 weeks. I will be making the trip to OK to see him graduate!! Woo Hoo!! He will then go to Fort Sam Houston, San Antonio, TX for a 16 week Advanced Training for Medic. He is supposed to be home around the first week of September. I am also planning to go get him and BRING HIM HOME!!!
There WILL BE a party!!
Thanks for all the prayers that have been prayed so far. I have felt each and every one. When I have been on the verge of 'loosing it', there has been this strength that I cannot explain except that I am being lifted up! Thank God that Cody is your child and walks in your faith!